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    <description>On clarity, creativity, and being human—mostly at home, sometimes in meetings, always in progress.</description>
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      <title>The slow cup</title>
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      <pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A small memory about a coffee maker, a quiet morning, and the pace I didn’t realize I was living at.</description>
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      <title>The way it definitely happened</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A story about love, memory, and the fine art of being sincerely wrong.</description>
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      <title>The case for not finding the baby's sex</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>You can know almost anything these days, except how it feels to wait. This is the case for keeping at least one secret between you and the universe.</description>
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      <title>At least it’s not Waltonia</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>Proof that sometimes the worst weekends make the best stories.</description>
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      <title>The fishing trip</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A quiet Saturday, three old friends, and a borrowed set of fishing poles. We didn’t catch a thing, but somehow, everything changed.</description>
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      <title>The greatest game that never should’ve happened</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>Two kids, three giants, one miracle shot—and a story that’s somehow still true. Probably.</description>
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      <title>Please hold, I’m unlearning myself</title>
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      <pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>The real work of leadership isn’t doing more, it’s unlearning the habits that once made you feel indispensable.</description>
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      <title>My favorite albums</title>
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      <pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>An ode to the albums that defined growing up, falling in love, and finding meaning. Part memoir, part mixtape, all heart.</description>
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      <title>I read the entire book with my ears</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>Some people turn pages. I fold towels. Either way, the story gets in there.</description>
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      <title>The Oilers guy</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>Hope, heartbreak, and a 28-point lead. Pretty much my coming-of-age story.</description>
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      <title>Friday night tights</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>The night I went looking for my soccer uniform and ended up having an emotional moment with a onesie. It happens.</description>
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      <title>My favorite movies</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A personal tour of the movies that swept me away, broke me open, and reminded me why I love film in the first place.</description>
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      <title>The Saturdays I didn’t know mattered</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A look back at the kind of Saturdays I barely noticed, and how they ended up shaping me anyway.</description>
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      <title>Am I annoying to work with? (and other leadership lessons)</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A story about trust, control, and the fine line between being helpful and being insufferable.</description>
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      <title>I chose Everton, and other terrible life decisions</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A love story about loyalty, suffering, and the kind of hope that really should’ve learned its lesson by now.</description>
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      <title>Songs worth waiting for</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>Once upon a penny, you could order twelve CDs through the mail and feel rich. A love letter to music, patience, and the lost art of waiting for joy.</description>
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      <title>The grumpy craftsman</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A simple story from my 20-year business journey with Chris, the man who'd question a laugh but build a desk with love.</description>
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      <title>The golden rule of driving</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>For anyone who’s ever yelled “Unbelievable!” at a stranger and then immediately missed their own exit.</description>
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      <title>The junk drawer theory of life</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>Life isn’t color-coded or curated. It’s a pile of receipts, loose batteries, and the occasional forgotten birthday card. And maybe that’s exactly how it should be.</description>
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      <title>What to expect when you’re no longer expected</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A story about parenting, persistence, and the moment your kids drift just far enough away to break your heart (in the best possible way).</description>
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      <title>The liturgy of the encore</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A night of great music, loud applause, and the sacred, time-honored ritual of pretending the concert is over.</description>
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      <title>Companies are not family</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>Good work should make life bigger, not smaller. The best teams know where work ends and the rest of life begins.</description>
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      <title>A short guide to remembering why you got married</title>
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      <pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>Because marriage isn’t about avoiding the mess—it’s about choosing your favorite person to clean it up with.</description>
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      <title>All’s fair in love and sweatpants</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>Love is patient. Love is kind. Love occasionally ruins gym shorts.</description>
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      <title>"This is actually not that bad," and other compliments I've received</title>
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      <pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A love letter to every well-meaning person who’s ever said “actually not that bad” and meant it as encouragement.</description>
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      <title>Faces of the Blue Bell hall of fame</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>Who are those goofy-grinning people on every Blue Bell ice cream carton? I overthink them so you don’t have to.</description>
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      <title>How to be a know-it-some</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>The unofficial recovery guide for people who still think “being right” is a skill.</description>
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      <title>The case for saying what you mean</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A Sunday night homework emergency, a few vague sentences, and one simple truth: most chaos starts when we assume people just know what we mean.</description>
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      <title>The last superhero I ever watched a movie with</title>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>A personal farewell to my cousin Pablo, and the quiet, unforgettable moment we shared watching The Batman.</description>
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      <title>I didn’t have a parenting philosophy, so I made one up</title>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
      <description>Parenting is equal parts guidebook you never got and adventure you never expected. Every page written in real time.</description>
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